So tonight at 2:39am I decided to look up my sign and the meaning behind it .. this is what I came across.
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Astrology of Libra Qualities:
Everyone loves a Libra. You can't help it—it's a Libras nature to be the friendliest, warmest, gentlest sign of all. They always find something to like in everyone, and they make them feel special as a result. Libras are the person that feels sorry for the lonely outcast at a party and engages him in a conversation so he won't feel left out; even if most people find him a bore, a Libra will smile and find the interesting appealing side of that person. For this quality Libras will always have friends.
Libra, symbolised by a pair of scales, has an ideal of peace, balance and harmony in all life. The desire for relationship is strong, but like all air signs Libras have a problem with confrontation, and will do anything to avoid an argument, or to stop one. It's not that they are so afraid of being hurt, it's that they are afraid of hurting someone else's feelings. When confronted with two opposing sides, they will find a happy medium. Libras crave harmony, and like their symbol, balance.
They are also very intuitive—some would even say psychic and this sense extends past reason into instinct. Libras will find something to like in everyone, but they also see the whole character of a person instantly. Others may be amazed at how correct Libras first impressions are when, later, they see the whole picture.
Libras listen very well, and also have a hunger for knowledge, which befits the sign name—Libra is part of library. But mostly it's a surface curiosity of lots of things.
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I think I am fun .. I think im TONS OF FUN... Ohhh and I listen .. you know I pride myself on being this great listener but whenever I meet somebody new I find myself doing all the talking... why is that???

Balance .... hmmmmmmmmmmmm soo if I am so good at balance then why do I feel so unbalanced in life at the moment ??? Hmmmmm Ima have to pick another month for my b-day bc im thinking I dont fit the characteristics of my sign!!!